(from Debbie Berteau, “Back to the Altar”)
• Arrogance/haughtiness
• Self-centeredness
• Self-righteousness
• Resistant to God’s will
• A condescending/critical attitude toward others
• Bragging/self-promotion
• Unable to receive correction/instruction
• Inability to admit wrong or say “I’m sorry”
• Will make excuses/shift blame
• Does not take responsibility for their actions
• Makes comparisons with others
• Keeps secrets/lacks transparency
• Is an interrupter/controls conversations
• Talks about themselves all the time
• Not a good listener
• Needs to be important
• Tries to be noticed
• Oversensitive
• Defensive
• Argumentative
• Harsh spirit
• Demands their way
• Refuses advice