He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me.
Jesus makes it plain, that if we love anything or anyone more than we love Him, that's an idol & He won't be 2nd. Nobody or nothing can or will do more for us than Jesus has. As He earned our love on the cross at Calvary.
Who or what do you love the most? At the Great White Throne Judgment, there will be no excuses.